Brenda Song Nudography: She starts with taking off

I dated a bi guy and it was amazing until he asked me if we could do it in the butt and e eventually left me for a dude lol. It was a friends with benefits kind of thing but we did really have feelings for eachother, but I'm with someone now and he's engaged to a girl. It was awesome being with him because I loved how open minded he was. He didn't give a shit about stereotypes or whether he was seen as gay, straight, masculine or feminine, he was just himself. I guess it was kind of like actually being able to have sex with your gay best friend. I used to consider myself bisexual, but having fallen hard for a transgender person (then being told I shouldn't see them as a boy and girl in one but the gender identity they are transitioning to) I apparently couldn't say 'bi' anymore. I guess I started using 'pansexual' then, but the I thought if a transgender person identifies as one gender, then they are part of the binary rather than outside it, so I can still say bi? Genderfluid people seem like a two for one deal to me tbh. I identify as female but like plenty of traditionally 'masculine' things so I'm all for meeting another girl who likes dude things or IS a dude sometimes. I'm happy as long as my partner is happy with their identity, because I literally don't give a shit about gender when I'm attracted to someone. It is so far down my list of priorities. If someone is objectively attractive, they're attractive. If you love their personality and have chemistry with them, why would you throw away a potentially beautiful relationship because someone is the 'wrong' gender? How can gay and straight people just immediately discount half the population as lovers? I literally cannot understand anything other than being pan I guess. I feel like there should be special words for people who want to be particular about what gender they date, rather than people who just don't care. It's all of you who are weird lol. On a more serious note though, I feel guilty about how easy it is to sexually objectify women. I can appreciate a hot male body objectively, but it does absolutely nothing for me on its own unless I have feelings for that person. I don't care about looks when I'm in love with a guy and have been with fat guys with inverted nipples, neckbeards etc. I just feel hot for them because of the emotional connection. Now I can form deep affection for women, but I am 99% more likely to be distracted by hot women in the street and want to check them out. I can be turned on by disembodied/isolated tits/ass whilst a penis on its own is just... Meh. (two guys together, even just cuddling and stuff sets my heart racing though. I would lose my shit if I saw my boyfriend kissing another guy in a good way, but it will never happen)  I hate this because as a woman, I am painfully aware how we are the designated spectacle, the object of the gaze and heavily sexualised. I try very, very hard not to make women feel uncomfortable or threatened because I know what it's like to be harassed and sexually assaulted when you're trying to go about your business. Not just that, but if they don't even swing that way, they will feel doubly creeped out. I think I actually have more of a desire for women than my boyfriend but I rein it in. I don't watch porn. I try to look away when booty is directly in my face on the escalator etc. When he makes inappropriate comments on women or criticises what they're wearing I just have to tell him if I can fucking control myself, so can you. We're long distance at the moment and it hurts that he watches porn rather than the pictures/videos I send him (it's a self esteem thing for me, but he 'can't see me that way'. Mild Madonna-Whore complex) when I abstain from looking at women and men. When he found out I'd had sex with a girl before he'd even kissed one he was super jealous. A little disgusted maybe. I think he is a little homophobic but also jealous of 'competition' from the opposite sex when I actively avoid all images or sexual advances from both genders but he is allowed to look at girls without me. That are white and blonde with huge tits... The opposite of me. You don't see me over here looking at bodybuilders. Nah, that's not what I want at all. Sometimes when I'm doing things with my boyfriend I feel his chest, remember there are no titties there, then balls are the consolation prize as something else that will jiggle. I suppose if he knew that it'd hurt him, but I love him for more reasons than what I can grab and jiggle.

Well done, Jojo ~

I love how he's like You try running from the police without breaking any laws when he was charged for indecent exposure? I don't recall tearing your pants off being a regular move done by criminals in police chases

So he noticed it was a penis, and yet was surprised it was a man... my mans genuinely needs to head back to school.

Expect nothin less than the best for the GOAT